Lost and found love. This story of love that fluttered it’s wing in puberty but materialized after being lost and found on social media. Love that became concrete for life. It shadowed the challenges of culture and notions. They made love successful by patience and conviction. Both are ambitious, realistic and dedicated towards life and career. This story will inspire you to fall in love the right way.
Ambition over infatuation. They both were living in the same city at different corners. During school days, they came across each other in one of the tuition classes. Even though they would notice each other, there wasn’t any concrete discussion or relation at that time. Both were focused on building their careers and did not have any influence of any kind. He completed his graduation in engineering and she completed her master’s in IT with flying colors. She stood first in her department.
Long held emotions ooze out during the spring. They both met each other during the time when social media started to take a boom in India. They connected online and had lot of discussions. He was staying out of city for his work that time. He got a job in industry. He was learning to live on his own. He was learning about his job too. She was still studying at that time. After having lots of talks, they expressed likingness about each other.
Courtship like Albatross. They met when he was in city and they could meet. After completing her studies and finding a job in the same city, both decided to convert their 7 years relationship into marriage. They confronted their parents. Initially there was a tussle in the girl’s family as they both were from different backgrounds and culture.
Persuasion, patience and promise pays off. He was a Gujarati boy and she had Marathi culture at her home, however they had been living in Gujarat for ages so they adapted to Gujarati culture as well. However when it comes to marriage, every small thing becomes a mountain in India. By being firm on their decision, they convinced their parents to agree after long persuasion. As the boy had well established in his career and was growing to become executive officer with good financial earnings and calm nature, they went ahead with the relationship.
Love continues after marriage. They both got married in the same town and moved to the place of his work. They had managed to find an opportunity for her in the same company as he was working. They moved from one city to another over the span of 2-3 years for work. With new projects and assignments they took up new challenges and completed their work with flying colors. Being good at what they do, they often got praised, awarded and recognized for work.
Life blooms in love, love blooms in life. He got promoted to manager position and shifted to a new city. They arranged to stay in a calm pleasant location in the outskirts of the city. Both used to go to work together. Even though in the initial hurdles of her not liking the kind of work she was doing, they managed to find a balance in life, work, love, family and companionship.
Lessons from love. Life is an ongoing process. Things are not same always. You don’t stay in the same city, same house or be friends with same people. But when meet someone you love endlessly you must make every effort to be in love together and navigate through the challenges of life sensibly and with conviction.
Lessons from life. Often life gives you new challenges. Sometimes you have to learn to do a thing in a new way. You may have to be patient for what you want. You must pursue your aspirations in the right amount. By being persistent and determined you can cross the highest mountains and deepest valleys, which once felt impossible. They continue to design life as per their interests and likes. There is more to life and love, than meets the eye. It’s not always cool neither it’s so worrisome. Life is a mix of some drama, some love, some care and lot of funny roller coaster ride.
LOVE STORIES – THE STORY OF TWO SOULS MADE FOR EACH OTHER
Made for each other. This story will make you feel hopeful about life. This is the story of people for whom it is said that marriages are made in heaven. Love is eternal. Love knows no bondage. In love once and forever. Someone is born for you on this Earth, often people don’t come across each other but these two young beautiful people met each other, fell in love, decided to marry each other and live together through thick and thin of life.
Not so same yet not so different. He was born and brought up in a middle class family in western India and went to become a graduate in engineering. He was working in a firm when he came across her. She was ambitious young girl making her mark in the world. They both resonated in thoughts and nature. Both were different in dynamics but core beliefs, values and ideologies were same. They soon started liking each other.
In India marriage is not between two people but between two families.
Love knows no boundary. As time went on and they gained good balance on economic front, they decided to proceed further with marriage. They confronted with respective parents. After initial hurdles and confusion, both parents after getting to know each other agreed to proceed further with this relationship. In India marriage is not between two people but between two families. They both got married and started life in city they were working.
Challenges in the way. After some time she got an opportunity in foreign country. She got a chance to fulfill her dreams. They decided she will fly but he took a bigger step by choosing to go as her companion on dependent visa. He opted to stay without work and pay. She took the responsibility of being the bread earner on her shoulders.
Take a role in life and relationship. They were staying in a foreign country. She would go to work and he would stay back at home doing all the household chores and taking care of his fitness. He would read whenever he got time. Ego, insecurities or negativity never got in their way. They were living life together and shaping it for their future by each taking their responsibility.
Work to make the ends meet. He was working with his company to find an opportunity in that country with some client but things were not turning out fruitful. After staying for over 6 months, it was getting a bit challenging to balance the expectations of people in their life. They both were happy with each other but life is made of multiple facets especially if you are from India.
Dreams do come true. They worked together to find opportunity in some other country. As luck favours the brave and persistent, she got an opportunity in Europe. He was able to find an opportunity in a month or so after they moved. They both were now working in a beautiful country with each other’s company.
Lessons of life. By being patient in all circumstances in life and working towards building life, they were able to overcome many challenges of life. By making strong calls of what is important for life, they were able to turn hurdles into opportunities. By believing in each other, they were able to navigate through the toughest and weakest moments in life. Life from far may seem that two people are enjoying life, stay and work in foreign country earning well enough. But to make things work in that way one has to go through various emotions, moments, encounters and challenges in life. Most often people don’t make it that far and consistently.
Love is the beginning and the end. Being in sync and in love with each other with no major insecurities and negative emotions gives rise to a beautiful experience of life. We all dream of such life but we are not ready to pay the price for it. We must develop ourselves and be patient. We must believe each other endlessly and thrive in love and life. In love it’s never your success or my success, it’s our success. It is not the success of work, dreams that counts, it is the success of love that counts.
LOVE STORIES – THE STORY OF MR PERFECT
This is the story of a Mumbaikar guy. He was born and brought up in Mumbai, India and was good at academics. He did computer engineering and fell in love with a girl in his department. They both were good at academics and it was the pair of the brains as well as beauty. He looks handsome and is well built. They both got married few years after college.
He got a job in IT firm and worked as software engineer. He was interested to start his own business or enterprise so he took tuition classes during college and after getting job. He created a small team to work on building a website as well as started working on new software. He got acquainted with one of the latest technology and he got an opportunity in his firm to fly onsite.
He went onsite and started working from there. She was here staying at his home with his parents. He used to manage cooking on his own to bring about some change once in a while. He managed to get his onsite extended as he was working well on his project and technology. He is good at communication and marketing, so naturally gets the best of things.
Happily staying together. He arranged to bring his wife to his place in foreign land. They both are staying together and enjoying life. He manages a small enterprise as well on his own where he gets some clients and earns sufficiently good enough.
He is an all-rounder. He is charming, sweet and good at taking decisions and making calls. He takes challenges as opportunities and works to overcome them. He is ambitious and very passionate about living a successful life. He has achieved many things in life till now and he is on a path to achieve some more.
Love Passion Success. He got married to the girl whom he liked and she liked him too. They both are into each other and have been living a beautiful life of care, love and kindness. The story looks like if he comes from a rich background but that’s not it is so. He has worked from living in a single bedroom house to going a living a luxurious life in foreign country.
Work on your dreams and they will come. This has happened because he has kept himself aligned and disciplined. He is always thinking about improving himself and is very dedicated to his dreams. He is vocal and very positive in his outlook. Because of the experiences and exposures he has gone through in his life, he has learnt many things which help him to face some more things of larger magnitude and achieve things not easily done.
Be who you want to be and build yourself for it. He reads a lot of success stories and business ideas. He is engrossed in his life of becoming who he wants to be. They both enjoy dinners together and making special moments worthwhile. He gifts her. Life has been good for them and many more things to come.
LOVE STORIES – THE STORY OF CINDERELLA LIKE GIRL
You must always remember this, have courage and be kind. You have more kindness in your little finger than most people possess in their whole body.
~ Cinderella movie
When I meet someone with such qualities I consider them to be Cinderella. Today I will share the story of such girl who was kind, courageous, generous and partly in sync with life and nature that magic seemed to be a part of her life. For she did everything beautifully and everything that came in touch with her turned beautiful.
She was from a town in southern India. She was good at studies and aced in her school. She went onto do graduation in Engineering and got a job in IT firm. During her training days, she fell in love with a man, whom she was to marry in long run. He was from eastern India. They both got trained and deployed in different cities for work. They continued talking and with time their relationship matured. They both would care for each other and surprise each other with gifts. They worked towards shaping their careers in same city. After a year or so of concrete emotions and relationship they informed at their home.
Since it was a different culture at both ends of country, it took some time to work out through the process of both families meeting each other, getting to know each other and essentially make sure everything is as per they expectations. As both of them were very serene and clear about most of things in life, they were able to get things worked out. Both got relocated to a new city and in the span of a year they got married. Both families had different cuisines, traditions, languages and lifestyles yet they mingled in so well with love and kindness that mother-in-law taught the girl how to cook some dish and the girl gave her new gifts and experiences. Both cared for both parents and celebrated life together whenever possible.
They planned travel to exotic places and enjoyed personal time with each other. She used to spend time with her girlfriends as well and share positivity with them. At work too she would complete her tasks and do her work efficiently. She was sweet in her voice and considerate in her words. They were genuinely in love with each other and care endlessly.
Be your biggest celebration !
All these seems like a story from a fairy tale but as I said there is a reason she has been called a Cinderella like girl. She had been gifted with deep core values and feelings and she spread her love and care with caution and charm.
She has worked out in her life to face realities and learnt to deal with as much charm as she can. It is not that everything has been smooth for her, she had her fair share of challenges. Going into an unknown city amidst people of different cultures, languages and habits, yet she chose to be like herself and she became good at it. She became her biggest celebration.
LOVE STORIES – THE STORY OF 19 YEARS OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE BY A WOMAN
She was a woman in lower middle class, uneducated and married at a very young age. She was a mother of 5. She had faced lot of struggles in life, but one of them is something that out stands all of them.
She was a symbol of compassion, care and kindness. Her husband lost his left limbs in paralysis. He was dysfunctional. He could merely speak. She served him for 19 years incessantly in the same way. She used to work from morning till night in his care. She would make him tea early in the morning with some biscuits and repeat making tea for another 3-4 times, whenever he demanded. She used to then cook food for him and take a nap in the noon. She used to clean his shit everytime he used the loo. She used to bathe him every morning. She would help him walk around the tricky corners of the house and assist him to sit on his asana all day where he would be visited by lot of ongoers in the neighborhood. He was man spoken of being very strong in his youth and hence lot of followers.
She devoted her life to him. She did this irrelevant of her feeling unwell. She never travelled to far land lest he would be alone. She never went away for her relaxation. For 19 years every single day, she was with him. She took care of him.
She never complained much about her condition, however she felt tired of the work and might weep in hours of dismay in discussions with daughters in her neighborhood. But she never ever left him. When time called, he had to leave her alone. He went on his path to heaven. World spoke of the freedom, she got after his death and how peacefully she can live there on. Little did they know what would follow.
After his death, she lost her health. She became weak and soon she was diagnosed of cancer. She followed him to heaven within a year.
Was it his love for her that kept her alive ?
Was her love for him that kept her alive ?
Was it her worry about him, what would happen of him after her, that kept her alive ?Was her pain in love stronger than the pain in her body, that oversaw what was happening to her and kept her sustain it ?
Was it mere coincidence ?
Did he call her to after-life !
What was that made her love him unconditionally for so long ?
Was she devoted to him and was it her devotion to see her husband as a God ?
She was a woman with some virtues in my eyes.
What is she to you ?
POETRY : LOVE POEMS FROM TAJ MAHAL
Love is not when everything is going according to your plan
Love is when everything seems to be dark and you are in the middle of nowhere and it is raining heavily, you smile thinking about her how it makes all the difference
Because love is not about just sharing your money, bed, luxury or your best
Love is about uniting, developing, dissolving, caring, falling, rising, shining, evolving and being together even when all the odds are against you.
It’s about holding that hand even when the world seems to be coming down on you and you know next moment you might be a history yet you continue to hold because that’s how you want your history to be written, with her, in life and after life and everything in between !
What is Love !
Love is an experience.
Love is a feeling.
Love is monumental.
Love is mesmerising.
Love is uplifting.
Love is beyond time.
Love is beyond life.
Love is eternal.
Love is in the heart.
Love is significant.
Love is pure.
Love is divine.
Love completes you
Love is not subjective as it is projected in modern life.
Love is not complicated as seen in Facebook status.
Because it is not a status
It is a feeling underneath
Which helps you to realise
That the body you own
The lungs that purify your blood
The heart that pumps the blood
When you find your love
The Love pumps oxygen into your life
The Love purifies your journey of life
The Love completes you.